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Rauhallinen lauantaiostosreissuni muuttui ikuisesti, kun outo lapsi kaupassa osoitti sormeaan ja huudahti, ett\u00e4 n\u00e4yt\u00e4n t\u00e4sm\u00e4lleen h\u00e4nen is\u00e4lt\u00e4\u00e4n. H\u00e4nen vieress\u00e4\u00e4n istunut nainen, Emily, v\u00e4itti kyynelehtien, ett\u00e4 olin h\u00e4nen aviomiehens\u00e4 Lewis, joka oli kadonnut kolme vuotta aiemmin auto-onnettomuudessa Pohjois-Carolinassa. Kun seisoin siin\u00e4 ruokakassin kanssa tytt\u00f6yst\u00e4v\u00e4lleni Jessicalle, nykyinen el\u00e4m\u00e4ni t\u00f6rm\u00e4si menneisyyteen, jonka olemassaolosta minulla ei ollut aavistustakaan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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K\u00e4rsin dissosiatiivisesta amnesiasta, joka johtui traumasta. Olin her\u00e4nnyt sairaalassa ilman muistoja ja sosiaality\u00f6ntekij\u00f6iden avulla rakentanut itselleni uuden identiteetin etsim\u00e4tt\u00e4 aiempaa. Emily n\u00e4ytti minulle valokuvia ja videoita pojastamme Calebista ja yhteisest\u00e4 kodistamme. Pojan silmien katse, joka oli identtinen minun silmieni kanssa, vahvisti tuskallisen totuuden \u2013 minulla oli perhe, jonka olin t\u00e4ysin unohtanut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kotona tunnustin kaiken Jessicalle. H\u00e4nen tukensa oli uskomatonta, vaikka n\u00e4in h\u00e4nen silmiss\u00e4\u00e4n pelon yhteisen maailmamme menett\u00e4misest\u00e4. Seuraavat kuukaudet olivat t\u00e4ynn\u00e4 neurologin k\u00e4yntej\u00e4 ja varovaisia \u200b\u200btapaamisia Emilyn ja Calebin kanssa. Kehoni tunnisti h\u00e4nen \u00e4\u00e4nens\u00e4 ja poikani naurun, mutta tietyt muistot pysyiv\u00e4t lukittuina l\u00e4pitunkemattoman muurin taakse. Olin jumissa kahden el\u00e4m\u00e4n ja kahden minua rakastavan naisen v\u00e4liss\u00e4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e4hitellen tajusin, etten voinut vain palata takaisin siihen mieheen, joka olin ollut ennen onnettomuutta. Ett\u00e4 Lewis oli poissa, mutta Caleb ansaitsi is\u00e4n. Emily ja min\u00e4 sovimme, ettemme kiirehtisi mihink\u00e4\u00e4n. P\u00e4\u00e4tin j\u00e4\u00e4d\u00e4 Jessican luokse, joka oli seissyt rinnallani vaikeimpina aikoina, mutta sitouduin my\u00f6s olemaan l\u00e4sn\u00e4 poikani el\u00e4m\u00e4ss\u00e4 ja rakentamaan uuden suhteen h\u00e4neen tyhj\u00e4st\u00e4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tied\u00e4n t\u00e4n\u00e4\u00e4n, ett\u00e4 jotkut menneisyyteni palaset saattavat olla kadonneet ikuisiksi ajoiksi. Mutta olen oppinut, ett\u00e4 identiteetti ei ole vain muistoja, vaan valintoja, joita teemme nykyhetkess\u00e4. El\u00e4m\u00e4ni on nyt monimutkaista ja arvaamatonta, mutta sen sijaan, ett\u00e4 etsisin vanhaa min\u00e4\u00e4ni, keskityn uusien muistojen luomiseen niiden ihmisten kanssa, joista v\u00e4lit\u00e4n. Se on minulle todellisen paranemisen alku.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Rauhallinen lauantaiostosreissuni muuttui ikuisesti, kun outo lapsi kaupassa osoitti sormeaan ja huudahti, ett\u00e4 n\u00e4yt\u00e4n t\u00e4sm\u00e4lleen h\u00e4nen is\u00e4lt\u00e4\u00e4n. 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