{"id":1563,"date":"2026-04-27T18:51:32","date_gmt":"2026-04-27T15:51:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/filan.am\/?p=1563"},"modified":"2026-04-27T18:51:33","modified_gmt":"2026-04-27T15:51:33","slug":"mieheni-lakkasi-kokonaan-huolehtimasta-hygieniastaan-joten-vuosi-haidemme-jalkeen-paatin-erota","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/filan.am\/?p=1563","title":{"rendered":"Mieheni lakkasi kokonaan huolehtimasta hygieniastaan\u2026 joten vuosi h\u00e4idemme j\u00e4lkeen p\u00e4\u00e4tin erota."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Olin Davidin kanssa kaksi vuotta, ja minusta tuntui, ett\u00e4 tunsin h\u00e4net t\u00e4ydellisesti. H\u00e4nell\u00e4 oli hyv\u00e4 ty\u00f6paikka, oma asunto, auto ja h\u00e4n oli tarkkaavainen minua kohtaan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vuosi h\u00e4iden j\u00e4lkeen p\u00e4\u00e4tin kuitenkin erota \u2013 koska David lakkasi huolehtimasta henkil\u00f6kohtaisesta hygieniastaan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"424\" height=\"597\" src=\"https:\/\/filan.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/0000000002222222222222202000000000.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1564\" srcset=\"https:\/\/filan.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/0000000002222222222222202000000000.jpg 424w, https:\/\/filan.am\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/0000000002222222222222202000000000-213x300.jpg 213w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 424px) 100vw, 424px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Emme asuneet yhdess\u00e4 pysyv\u00e4sti, mutta vietimme usein \u00f6it\u00e4 h\u00e4nen luonaan. Ei ollut merkkej\u00e4 siit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 siit\u00e4 tulisi ongelma. Kun tulin raskaaksi, h\u00e4n kosi minua, ja p\u00e4\u00e4timme perustaa perheen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vaikka olimme puhuneet lapsen saamisesta ennen h\u00e4it\u00e4, olin lyk\u00e4nnyt p\u00e4\u00e4t\u00f6st\u00e4 menn\u00e4 naimisiin. En uskonut, ett\u00e4 sill\u00e4 olisi mit\u00e4\u00e4n merkityst\u00e4. En kuvitellut, kuinka paljon arkeni muuttuisi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>H\u00e4iden j\u00e4lkeen David alkoi kuitenkin laiminly\u00f6d\u00e4 itse\u00e4\u00e4n. H\u00e4n tuli kotiin v\u00e4syneen\u00e4, ei vaihtanut vaatteita ja nukahti k\u00e4ym\u00e4tt\u00e4 suihkussa. 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